Tips For When Your Feelings Have Been Hurt

Okay, so here's the deal when you're hurt. 

Don't blame that person. Chances are they have something going on too. 

Don't try and generalize your pain. Not all men are this way and not all friends do that. Understand that these things happen and the choices we choose to make with what we feel contribute directly to our growth. 

Let yourself hurt. Don't try and cover the feeling. Allow yourself to want to cry or just sit or whatever. This person meant something to you. That can in no way be a bad thing. 

Once you're over it keep living life! You're doing great champ! 

Don't forget not to bring people in on your pain if you have negative feelings for that person. The person you're talking to may sprout or worst, affirm your negativity, and it will continue this awful cycle of a lack forgiveness... even though what you really want to do is forgive because deep down you know you care. 

7.5.14

I don't know if a guy who doesn't look at other girls when you are his exists.

Not even a peak.

He doesn't even acknowledge her beauty, what good would it do? 

He's fallen for real.

I don't know if a guy like that even exists.

But I wouldn't give my forever to anyone but him.

So I'm willing to wait, or get over it.

A friend.

A friends who's a girl and doesn't take pleasure in receiving attention from someone you care for. 

A friend who doesn't secretly wonder. 

What would it be like? What if it were me? 

A friend who's true colors don't eventually show. 

I don't know if a friend like this exists. 

But it's the only friend I'd call my own. 

So I'm willing to wait or get over it.